My boyfriend won’t tell me his past and it hurts me so I broke up with him what do I do?
08.06.2025 02:42

Here is what this one boils down to — pick one:
a) . Figure out what kind of people his current best friends are, figure out the kind of company he keeps (currently), and make the call on that basis.
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So I need more information — Can you paint a larger, more detailed picture in the comment box below?
A lot of relationship questions on Quora are easy questions to answer.
What you need to do is this:
If my lovely sister sleeps with my boyfriend, what should I do about her?
Would you want his best friends, and the people he hangs out with, as your next door neighbors for the rest of your life?
1 — You have a keeper of guy who has a bad or checkered past, but he’s repented, and he’s working hard to turn over a new leaf — but he’s still too ashamed of his past to talk about it.
This one is harder (I like the harder questions).
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2 — You have a bad apple who not only has a bad or checkered past, but he hasn’t fundamentally changed, he’s the same bad apple he always was, and doesn’t want you to figure that out.
b) . How does he treat other people of lower status than him? . . . How does he treat the persons he doesn’t yet know very well? . . . How does he treat the check-out clerks, the gas station attendants, the bums and homeless people on the streets? . . . How does he treat stray dogs and cats? . . . Will he go out of his way to help someone he doesn’t know? . . . Is he quick to anger and curse, or slow to do so? . . . Can he hold a job for months & years without upsetting his co-workers or bosses or clientele? . . . Does he pay his bills on time? . . . Does he run up credit card debt and have bill collectors after him? . . . What does your mother and sisters think of him? . . . Does he have good manners on the phone? . . . Other than his past (before he met you), is he easy-going and easy-to-talk-to about everything else? . . . If he ran a business, would you recommend your best friends to do business with him? . . . Does he have some emergency savings? . . . Does he mow his yard, wash his car, go to the dentist as needed, and take his pets to the vet as needed? . . . Does he spend too much money on beer, alcohol, weed, lottery tickets, sports betting, cigarettes, porn, or other junk?